Things To Say To Get Your Girlfriend Back
So, you'd like to get your girlfriend back, and you want to know what to say in order to do it. Well, there aren't any pre-written lines that'll automatically get you a happy relationship. Sure, you might be able to manipulate her into getting back together with you for a little while, but that's not what you really want. What you want is a situation where you'll both be happy.
Don't fool yourself into thinking it's just about saying the right thing to make her think the breakup was a bad idea.
After all, nobody likes to break up with someone they love. It's unpleasant, stressful, and no fun at all. Why give up a stable, happy relationship to be alone? You didn't break up for no reason - something wasn't working out. That doesn't mean you don't have a chance to fix the problem, though. Take a good, hard look at your situation, think about what made you both happy and what caused friction, and decide whether you can fix it. If you can then take action now to get your girlfriend back by really thinking about those factors and what you can do about them. The problem probably isn't just you, but if you're genuinely willing to work on it, it improves the chances that she'll be willing to try, too.
What can you say to get your girlfriend back? If there's something you did that was wrong, such as cheating on her, lying about important factors, or not being around for her, you can apologize. You'd better be sincere - if you're just saying you're sorry to get her back, there's a pretty good chance she'll know it. You'd also better be committed to not doing it again. After all, you might be sorry now, but that doesn't mean much if you turn around and go out with her friends later on.
You can also say you'd like to talk about what went wrong. Just make sure it doesn't turn into a blame game - on either side. If it's all about slinging blame back and forth, no one's going to be forgiven, and you're not going to get back together. Don't let her abuse you, but don't bring up every little thing she's ever done wrong, either. Keep an eye on the real goal - talking about the actual problems that kept your relationship from working. If you're both willing to address them, your chances of getting her back and keeping her go way up.
There's no magic formula to get your girlfriend back, and anyone who says so has a pretty low opinion of women and people in general. Don't try the manipulative approach, try the sensible one. Think hard about what went wrong, what you can do to fix it, and how to approach her without looking pushy or clingy. Don't dwell on the past when you could be thinking about the future. It might sound like a tall order, but its worth it in the end! If you can put the pieces back together and start from a sound foundation, you could be looking at a really great relationship.
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