How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
For a lot of us, it's not enough to say that the relationship's over - we can't give up on our ex girlfriends. If you're thinking about the great times you had, and missing her a lot, you're probably wondering how to get her back. Fortunately, there is a way, but it's not easy. That's because relationships aren't something you can fix with a magic wand. You need to be someone she's going to want to get back together with. In a way the 'trick' to get your ex girlfriend back is no trick at, there are simply a few areas that you need to look at and adjust accordingly.
Let's look at some of the things you should do.
First, stop chasing after her...
If you're calling her late at night, leaving her messages all the time, or sending her lots of texts, you're not doing yourself any favors. Don't show up unexpectedly, invite yourself along on social outings, or try to spend all your time with her. Things are over right now, and you're just making yourself someone she feels irritated with. If your ex is going to come back, she has to do it of her own free will, not because you badgered her into it.
Work on yourself.
After all, you'd like to be someone she wants to date. List your strengths and focus on them. Make sure you pay attention to your interests, and try to be someone you really like. She's a lot less likely to want to get back together if you don't even like yourself. Spend some time at the gym or go hiking to make you feel better about your body. Go through your wardrobe and get rid of anything you don't feel happy about. It can make a difference.
Remember to be positive.
A lot of us feel pretty bad right after the breakup, but it's important not to dwell on it. Don't let your breakup ruin your life. Instead, focus on the things about your life that you feel happy about, and don't get into the blame game. Being negative isn't going to help you get her back. There's a good chance it'll make you seem like a real downer, though. Do you spend a little too much time thinking about yourself and the things that went wrong? Start trying to concentrate on the things that are going right. Being a more positive person isn't just good for you - it's also likely to make you more appealing to your ex.
Don't let your social life go, either
It can be tempting to crawl into your apartment and not come back out, but that will just alienate you more. Be open to seeing other people, at least casually, and go out with your friends. Just don't start seeing someone to make your ex girlfriend jealous. That's manipulative, and it rarely works. You could end up telling her that you're over her and don't want her back, instead! If you're going to date again, make sure you really like the person you're seeing.
Get your life together
Be someone worth dating, and communicate well, and there's a good chance you'll see a change. It might not happen right away, but it will help you in the long run. Being able to get your ex girlfriend back may not be a sure thing, but these tips can help you. There's no reason to spend your time feeling bad when you could be working to build a better relationship in the future.
Want more specific advice?
Click on the links below for help in three distinct areas:
* Get Your Boyfriend Back (For Women)
* Get Your Girlfriend Back (For Men)
* Save Your Marriage (For Men and Women In Couples Looking To Save Their Marriage).
